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28 Sep

The Secret To Amazing Style That No One Talks

Need to know the key to great style??? On this video I’ll share the seemingly small ways I even have grow to be more comfortable and assured with taking fashion risks! Thanks a lot for watching. Your support means the world to me! ~Erin xo

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Reiss Blazer | https://go.magik.ly/ml/1ki19/
White Top | https://go.magik.ly/ml/1ki1j/
Necklace* | https://apprl.com/al/7rEk/
Necklace Charm* | https://apprl.com/al/7rEl/
Short Necklace* | https://apprl.com/al/7rEq/
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Ring* | https://apprl.com/al/7pXa/
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Intro | 00:00

Style Risk #1 | Daring Lips | 4:40
Pink Lip | https://go.magik.ly/ml/1ki21/
Red Lip | https://go.magik.ly/ml/1hxwo/

Style Risk #2 | Turban | 6:10
Turbans by the Same Designer | https://go.magik.ly/ml/1khxp/
Similar Patbo Dress | https://go.magik.ly/ml/1khxr/

Style Risk #3 | Headband | 07:16
Similar Headbands | https://go.magik.ly/ml/1khxy/
Pink Shirt | https://go.magik.ly/ml/1khyb/

Style Risk #4 | Corset Top | 08:12
Black Velvet Corset Top | https://go.magik.ly/ml/1khye/
Corset Dresses
Pink Pleated Midi Dress | https://go.magik.ly/ml/1khyg/
Green Dress | https://go.magik.ly/ml/1khyh/
White Floral Dress | https://go.magik.ly/ml/1khyi/

Style Risk #5 | Tulle Skirt & Dresses | 08:45
Similar Tulle Skirt (Same Designer) | https://go.magik.ly/ml/1khym/
For Less | https://go.magik.ly/ml/1khyn/
Similar Tulle Dresses (Same Designer) | https://kikiriki.com/dresses

Style Risk #6 | Pink Dress | 10:36
Pink Dress | https://rstyle.me/+Inp0liQQiQI6EQot_0O6nA

Style Risk #7 | Combat Boots | 11:13
See By Chloe Boots | https://go.magik.ly/ml/1khz8/
For Less | https://go.magik.ly/ml/1khz9/

Style Risk #8 | Retro Sunglasses | 11:40
Similar Sunglasses | https://rstyle.me/+Xh6lNcwqLvgY-Fawbl2XnA

Style Risk #9 | Giant Shoulder Pads | 12:21
Black Balmain Blazer | https://go.magik.ly/ml/1khzc/
For Less | https://go.magik.ly/ml/1khze/
For Even Less | https://go.magik.ly/ml/1khzj/
Pink Balmain Blazer | https://go.magik.ly/ml/1k2sq/

Style Risk #10 | Readers | 13:23
Readers | https://rstyle.me/+Knfr_ImTjhaMiNAWSaxZvg

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  • Myra Ephross

    I love this video and I an in a rut of black and more black. I have been adding some satin silk blouses in bright colors… my risk. Next step… Lipstick that is not nude or safe pink. Thank you for the inspiration. Ps I am 69 year old, as you said "If not now… when?"

    September 28, 2022 at 11:55 am
  • Heather Hayen Fit Life

    Love this video. Just this morning my BF said, you're wearing heels to Target? I said, this is me now! I'm 46 it's time to enjoy getting dressed. Also Iris Apfel you mention and I love her, she's not in her 70s, she just turned 101!!

    September 28, 2022 at 11:55 am
  • Dawn Rykovich


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  • Heidi Schmid

    P.S. You should totally wear a couture dress! 🙂

    September 28, 2022 at 11:55 am
  • Heidi Schmid

    I love it when you buy "princess" pieces like the tulle dress or the bedazzled headband. They look great on you and the fact that you buy them and wear them encourages me to get my "happy" pieces too! :). Thank you for your videos.

    September 28, 2022 at 11:55 am
  • Joey Perez

    Love those readers!

    September 28, 2022 at 11:55 am
  • judy kilger

    Wow!! So true!! Take risks and do what makes you happy!! Love this video! I can relate !! I just returned to Canada from a trip to Italy . We were in Milan and I didn’t go into the designer stores ! I felt just like you! I couldn’t handle the “look” that the shop keepers give. So I avoided it. Boy if I could do it all over again I’d Walk right in there with my head held high. I could just kick myself for not going in! Oh well ,small steps as you say !! I do have white sunglasses and I love them!!! ???? working on the red lipstick!!! ???? wish me luck!! ????

    September 28, 2022 at 11:55 am
  • Alison Smith

    I love the silky beige blazer….where can I find it?

    September 28, 2022 at 11:55 am
  • Connie Goodspeed

    Where is the evidence? This is my codependent talk. You are so together Erin!

    September 28, 2022 at 11:55 am
  • Lorena Silva

    I love the way you think!❤
    Thank you sooo much!

    September 28, 2022 at 11:55 am
  • Jessica Boyd

    I still do the wet hair bun thing, LOL.

    September 28, 2022 at 11:55 am
  • Carol Payne

    Erin, my Sincere Thanks for your Style show and advise. I'm a very young 84 and still look pretty good and think young and love Fashion & Style. Sincerely, Carol Jean

    September 28, 2022 at 11:55 am
  • Bee Kay

    So good to hear someone talk about this…Wear what you love ????????????????????

    September 28, 2022 at 11:55 am
  • Therese Matheny

    You make me smile ????

    September 28, 2022 at 11:55 am
  • Samantha Freeman

    I love your style and your videos. I would love you to do a video featuring larger women and teach us how to be fierce while we work on ourselves. I know if I felt confident in my style, it would make a world of difference 🙂 Keep up the great work.

    September 28, 2022 at 11:55 am
  • Mary LaFrance

    always liked shoulder pads especially on suit jackets, for structure and it looks more elegant.

    September 28, 2022 at 11:55 am
  • Mel Willis

    Been following you a while. Love this video so much! Keep it up! ????

    September 28, 2022 at 11:55 am
  • SpartaWarriorCodeRed

    Love this… you are great. You give great advice. Keep doin’ you!

    September 28, 2022 at 11:55 am
  • Debra M

    Omg! I have almost everything you mentioned in my closet and I wear it with pride. Makes me smile when I wear something I want to wear regardless of age???? I was in Nice France 3 yrs ago, and an older woman who had to be at least 75 or older wore a black patent leather mid-thigh rain coat with black patent leather THIGH HIGH BOOTS!! She looked fabulous!! I thought if she can wear it so can I.????????????

    September 28, 2022 at 11:55 am
  • Athena124

    You were a single mom with four kids at 25? How many children do you have in total?

    September 28, 2022 at 11:55 am
  • Amanda B

    Iris is 101!!! Even better!

    September 28, 2022 at 11:55 am
  • Paulie Smrt

    I was skeptical about the total but this was really good advice and the examples definitely helped

    September 28, 2022 at 11:55 am
  • Taunya Wren

    Very sweet video. Thank you for sharing your experiences & history.

    September 28, 2022 at 11:55 am
  • Carolyn Noce

    You in those readers is everything!

    September 28, 2022 at 11:55 am
  • Enniroc69

    For your info Iris Apfel is not in her 70's as she was born on August 29, 1921!!! Yes she's an icon at 101 years old 😉

    September 28, 2022 at 11:55 am
  • Elcy Pereira


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  • Ahyda C.

    I love your readers! ❤

    September 28, 2022 at 11:55 am
  • Kelly Anne Baines

    Head band cute

    September 28, 2022 at 11:55 am
  • Our Cozy Corner

    34 and starting to feel like “I’m too old but also too young” to wear a lot of things…screw it. This is the exact encouragement I needed to remember how much joy I once found in playing with clothes.

    September 28, 2022 at 11:55 am
  • Lorraine Hughes-Smith

    I have only just become confident at wearing a dress , just because . I have ALWAYS worn a bold lip though and I am synonymous for it. I also wear boots ie stilletto style all the time. The older I am the less I worry what other people think and I have had more compliments than not.

    September 28, 2022 at 11:55 am
  • Robin Sentell

    Yeah, I did all the risky stuff. I am shifting in the opposite direction of less is more.

    September 28, 2022 at 11:55 am
  • Kathy Scott

    I HATE super high end snotty stores .. Why do they act like they are better then you when they are the ones working not you???Sure I have Gucci n Lou but only use them for special things.. I guess I 'thought I 'needed some? Naaa
    Smile and just be yourself like Erin we can be the most beautiful high end but 'SIMPLE' person ;] PRICELESS ;]
    Thank you BEAUTIFUL lady for your wonderful videos ;]

    September 28, 2022 at 11:55 am
  • Nancy Greenfield

    I do what I want. Headbands are great! I don’t care about an “age limit”

    September 28, 2022 at 11:55 am
  • Yajaira Franco

    I can definitely relate with what you are saying! I am going gray and I don't care that I keep hearing that is aging me. I don't care, my hair is super healthy and I love my salt and pepper look! My best friend don't like it and I told her I don't care because I love it.

    September 28, 2022 at 11:55 am
  • Niksta Rules

    This video made me so happy ???? ????????

    September 28, 2022 at 11:55 am
  • Maryanne Sullivan

    In her 90s

    September 28, 2022 at 11:55 am
  • The Wellbeingness

    You’re pure wonderful x

    September 28, 2022 at 11:55 am
  • QuickSilverHair

    Iris Apfel is 101 years old…and yet we might think she’s in her 70’s…the power in being what you want to be with style at any age.

    September 28, 2022 at 11:55 am
  • Heartofagiver 1

    You look stunning in everything!!

    September 28, 2022 at 11:55 am
  • world over

    I'm going to be 67 in 2 months and I wear headbands as well. I love them!

    September 28, 2022 at 11:55 am
  • Nicolle O'Brien

    Excellent video and you look stunning in all of those pictures.

    September 28, 2022 at 11:55 am
  • Olokunful

    You have the best accessory that helps you pull off any look, and that's a beautiful body. Thanks for the tips!

    September 28, 2022 at 11:55 am
  • Lew Godfrey

    I absolutely love you and your videos ????

    September 28, 2022 at 11:55 am
  • Tanya Byng

    Just a quick story on your lipstick example I used to work in retail and at that time it was in fashion to wear a very very dark lip almost goth looking with against lighter pale skin and so I was wearing that and this gentleman came up to me wearing black socks and golf shorts And cleats looking like he belonged at a retirement community in Boca Raton and she said you know that lipstick is so last year and I laughed and I thought to myself who is this guy Max factor obviously I didn’t listen to him and I just continue to take risks throughout my life So consider the source of the comment that guy probably never took a risk in his life he looked like an accountant

    September 28, 2022 at 11:55 am